In Bhorakalan, a village located in the state of Haryana, where societal norms have long dictated the roles of men and women, a young woman named Khushi is carving out her own path. Her story is one of resilience, determination, and a commitment to breaking gender stereotypes—an inspiration for many girls who dare to dream beyond societal constraints.
Khushi’s journey took a defining turn when her family faced financial hardships due to her father’s company relocating during the pandemic. With limited opportunities and growing economic concerns, the pressure to conform to traditional gender roles was stronger than ever. But Khushi, having been associated with Breakthrough since 2019, had a different vision for her future.
Through Breakthrough’s Taaron ki Toli chapter, ‘Kiska Kaam Kiska Naam’ (Whose Work is it Anyway?), she had learned about the deeply ingrained gender stereotypes that define the division of labor. Rather than accepting the societal expectation that women should confine themselves to household duties or ‘female-appropriate’ jobs, she chose to defy the odds.
With unwavering resolve, Khushi joined a well-known automobile company as a trainee—stepping into a field traditionally dominated by men. It was not an easy start. Skepticism and doubt loomed large, especially from her male coworkers, who questioned her abilities. But instead of backing down, Khushi used this as fuel to push forward.
Her belief in gender equality, instilled by Breakthrough, gave her the confidence to persist. She immersed herself in learning, even enrolling in electrical courses offered by the company to sharpen her skills. Through sheer perseverance, she proved her competence on the assembly line, gradually earning the respect of her colleagues. With time, she no longer felt like an outsider but rather an integral part of the workforce—one whose talent and dedication spoke louder than societal biases.
“Society forces you to believe that girls cannot do this job. I want to continue being a part of Breakthrough and inspire other girls to do all kinds of work that society expects only men to do,” she says, her voice filled with conviction.
Khushi’s journey is not just personal; it is transformative for her family as well. Witnessing her determination and success, their perspectives on girls’ education and employment have shifted. Once bound by societal norms, they now support and encourage her aspirations.
But Khushi’s dreams do not end here. While she has already shattered barriers in the automobile industry, she now aspires to become a lawyer. With a deep-rooted desire to give back to the community, she envisions a future where she can empower other girls, advocating for their rights and helping them break free from the chains of gender stereotypes.
Her story serves as a powerful reminder that change begins with one courageous step. Through her relentless pursuit of equality and self-reliance, Khushi is not only redefining her own destiny but also lighting the way for countless young girls who dare to dream beyond societal boundaries.
Khushi’s journey is proof that when given the right support, knowledge, and belief in their own capabilities, girls can achieve anything they set their minds to. And as she continues to challenge norms and inspire others, her story stands as a testament to the power of resilience and the impact of organizations like Breakthrough in shaping a more equal future.
As we celebrate Women’s Day, Khushi’s story is a reminder of the countless women who continue to break barriers and redefine possibilities. Her journey exemplifies the spirit of the day—empowerment, equality, and the courage to challenge societal norms for a better, more inclusive future.
